So a bit of background. My period has been all over the place this year, to the extent that I thought I could possibly be going in to VERY early early menopause (I’m 32 in two months). I had a period at the beginning of January and then nothing until the end of April. I put it down eventually to increased exercise, hormones etc. Anyway from then I’ve had 4! In the last 2.5 months… or at least what I thought was 4.
I’m also living overseas and have had to start a new contraception in this time but due to the periods coming more frequently than before (I was always regular 28 days) I never completed a full set of pills and were stopping and starting all over the place.
Anyway, here I am with so many pregnancy symptoms 2 weeks after having a very light bleed - what I assumed was a light period but having googled my many symptoms 100 times am starting to believe was implantation bleeding. And panicking that I may have had another unplanned pregnancy (see below) and I’m so scared to tell my partner who’s pretty sure he doesn’t want another (however jokes about another every now and again!) in case he thinks I’ve planned this without his approval.
Our first son - who’s now 5, was conceived unplanned - I was on the pill but had been quite ill, sickness etc and everything just seemed to line up time wise to fall pregnant. My boyfriends initial reaction at the time was freaked out and confused as to be expected but within a week of the news he was so buzzing for it.
We’ve been together 12 years, have a pretty solid relationship and a good life! I just don’t want to mess everything up if I am pregnant and he doesn’t want it. I don’t even know how I’d feel about it. I resigned myself to the fact we’d probably just have the 1 child over a year ago!
How do I approach this?!