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Terrified to get pregnant after C Section but desperate for baby number 2

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popncollar · 19/06/2024 19:31

1 year post birth of my son via C Section, I can't comprehend how I won't have complications in my next pregnancy, given I've had a C Section. I know complications are rare, but I feel like I am going to panic through the whole next pregnancy I have, thinking my body won't be able to grow a child like it first did because my womb has been cut open! Is this a really silly thought process? I am desperate to start trying for baby number 2 but feel very anxious. Some reassurance would be great!

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2024 19:35

Have you had a debrief from the hospital where you gave birth? It sounds like you could do with some professional support and answers to any questions you might have.

I got pregnant almost exactly a year after my C-section and had a smooth pregnancy and uncomplicated VBAC, if that helps.

BoredAuditor · 19/06/2024 19:35

Loads of women have multiple c sections. Though think safe guidance is 3 or 4.

From memory medics also advise a year before trying to conceive after a Cs.

I've had 2 Cs. Second one was easier than the first I felt.

Flowersallaroundme · 19/06/2024 19:35

Maybe see a practice nurse, health visitor or gp if you can and ask what they think. I did this before getting pregnant with 2nd after c-section. But lots of people have had another after a cs.

BabyFever1345 · 19/06/2024 19:36

I thought the recommended time to wait after a C section is 2 years? Give yourself more time to recover. I wouldn't put my body through that quite so soon.

I'd use the next 6-12 months to get super healthy, eat well, get more sleep, get into the groove again. Then start trying.

I know age may not be on your side (it's not on my side either). But YOU come first. Your wellbeing and health should come first.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/06/2024 19:38

BabyFever1345 · 19/06/2024 19:36

I thought the recommended time to wait after a C section is 2 years? Give yourself more time to recover. I wouldn't put my body through that quite so soon.

I'd use the next 6-12 months to get super healthy, eat well, get more sleep, get into the groove again. Then start trying.

I know age may not be on your side (it's not on my side either). But YOU come first. Your wellbeing and health should come first.

My consultant recommended waiting a year before getting pregnant again.

InTheRainOnATrain · 19/06/2024 19:38

I’ve had 2 sections and 2 non eventful pregnancies. Ideally a year before getting pregnant again, minimum 6 months but I was told no medical reason why I can’t go for a third.

JDob · 19/06/2024 19:54

Have 3 kids. Ist induction, other 2 c sections. C section planned and better but children often sectioned due to excess mucus. Harder to recover from.

Iloveeverycat · 19/06/2024 19:57

I have had 3 c sections second section with twins third section 20 months later. No problem at all.

readyforroundthree · 19/06/2024 20:08

I've had two sections and will be booked in for a third with this one too. I've never had any issues with healing or any of my pregnancies.

nildesparandum · 19/06/2024 20:39

Both of my now grown up children were born by emergency c section.I had tubal tie during the second birth.I had agreed to this during the pregnancy if another section was needed. At that time all c sections were done under general anaesthesia and the classical incision was used.You were advised to have no more than two.

Avie29 · 19/06/2024 21:42

hey, loads of women go on to have perfectly normal pregnancies/labours/births after c-secs, i just had baby number 5 (vbac) after c-sec with twins, i was induced but they wouldn’t put the drip up past a certain amount due to risks of scar on uterus tearing but was told it was 1 in 200 that happens, both me n baby perfectly fine, no complications throughout pregnancy or labour and birth xx

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