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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Birth

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Chelseaaaaa · 13/06/2024 11:03

Hi

Looking for a bit of help if possible,
I am 2 weeks away from my due date, I am a first time mum who's having a baby girl and has been breech for most of my pregnancy (prepared myself that I would need a c section) Until the other day when I had a scan and she had turned head down and then my Since then I have had mixed feelings as my midwife wants me to be induced now. I think I would have rather have had a c section as I've heard loads of horrible stories about being induced and I really don't want to go overdue!

Just looking for a bit of advice really please

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haveatye · 14/06/2024 19:09

They won't come to your house and nab you. You can agree to induction on due date then change your mind.

When you stop to think about it, it's mad that we have one single date and before that a baby is not late but after it, they're late. Biology doesn't really work like that.

You need to ask questions about what the actual risk is and make decisions that suit you. I think they schedule inductions sometimes just to manage workflow, tbh.

CosmicLove · 14/06/2024 19:11

I was induced with my daughter. I was offered induction at 37 weeks because she was big but I decided to hold off, as I was desperate for it to happen naturally. However, I then developed hypertension at 40+3 and after a couple of days of monitoring, she still wasn't coming, and I had to be induced. The experience was as challenging as any labour would be, but it was fine. I was a bit gutted not to be able to use water - my blood pressure being high meant I had to be constantly monitored, and apparently the water would have been a risk for me - but I made peace with it, as it was what it was and sometimes we do have to let go of our birth plans and go with the flow. I had a prostaglandin pessary which started things very mildly, but they had to give me a second one. After about 12 hours from arriving at hospital, I was ready to be taken through to the labour ward. From there, things kept going at a good pace, but in the end baby was back to back and I had to have rotational forceps to deliver her. The whole experience from arriving at hospital to baby being born was less than 24 hours, and although she is my only birth so far, I found the whole thing manageable and not frightfully painful, like you sometimes hear inductions are. I managed right through with gas and air. At first I was really disappointed to be having an induction and not the natural birth I was hoping for, but in the end it didn't matter. She arrived safely and that's the important thing. Good luck for baby's arrival ❤️

Chelseaaaaa · 14/06/2024 19:13

haveatye · 14/06/2024 19:09

They won't come to your house and nab you. You can agree to induction on due date then change your mind.

When you stop to think about it, it's mad that we have one single date and before that a baby is not late but after it, they're late. Biology doesn't really work like that.

You need to ask questions about what the actual risk is and make decisions that suit you. I think they schedule inductions sometimes just to manage workflow, tbh.

I've wrote down questions!
Sometimes it's best to ask people that have experienced being induced and c sections and what's best for me and baby

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Kosenrufugirl · 14/06/2024 19:18

You might want to check out the recent thread Elective section vs Induction

Chelseaaaaa · 14/06/2024 19:26

jessicalovejoy · 14/06/2024 09:13

Hi,

I don’t have experience of induction but just wanted to say, I know it’s really hard but you should try to take things as they come. I had bad anxiety in pregnancy and because I had been diagnosed with gestational diabetes, there was a lot of talk about what would happen if I hadn’t gone into labour by my due date (hospital policy was they don’t allow you to go overdue if you have GD). It felt like I spent most of my pregnancy hearing about all the terrible things that could happen if my baby was too big and worrying about it.
I had an appointment to have a sweep the day before I was due but I actually gave birth the night before it. It was the most straight forward natural birth you can imagine and she was an average weight, not big at all. So it was all worry for nothing!
sorry if this is not very helpful, but my point is that there are so many different ways things can go with pregnancy and childbirth, while it is good to work out what you want and don’t want to happen in terms of medical intervention etc, try not to waste too much energy on anticipating things that might happen because it might turn out differently and then it’s all moot!
Good luck and I really hope everything goes smoothly for you x

Thank you! Xx

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