Really don't know what to do

[Kaybayx]

Hey ladies, just looking for abit of advice. Please don't judge as I'm already judging myself. Basically me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and I found out yesterday I'm pregnant. I'm in 2 minds in what to do. I want to keep the baby but it's only been a month which is far too early in a relationship to get pregnant and my boyfriend has made it clear he doesnt want us to have a kid yet so if I go through with it he will break up with me. However, I've already had an abortion in my pervious relationship which I regretted straight away and still do to this day and I know I'll regret having one this time around, but it's so early in the relationship and il be single/alone and pregnant. I also have a 3 year old from a pervious relationship. Any advice is very much appreciated x

My biggest concern would be what is in the best interests if my 3 year old.

Are you up to be a single mother of two? Can you support your family? Handle every day life?

I would be very aware of that if you keep the pregnancy it could be 2 children on your own.

Can you afford another child as well as your 3 year old? It sounds like you’ll be a single mum so make sure you’re ok with that before you decide.

That's very stressful, I'm sorry OP. You need to plan to be a single mother. Imagine going through pregnancy alone, raising the baby alone while also caring for the 3 year old etc. And make your decision based on that.

Your body, your life, entirely your choice. Just make sure you make that choice based on reality, not some possible romantic future with this man.

You decide what you think is best for you. Can you cope as a single mum of 2 ?
How would this impact on your 3 year old ?

A month into the relationship, you have no idea of what he’s really like.
Has he met your 3 year old yet ?

I’d also be concerned about a strange man meeting my 3 year old so soon.