I have older children.
some four years ago I had an unplanned pregnancy with my partner, we were both totally shocked and unprepared and by the time we’d both started to grapple with it I had a miscarriage. This didn’t complete and I had an awful experience of severe blood loss, collapse, emergency surgery, infection, all during COVID early days so I was totally alone in hospital. It was truly awful. Afterwards my partner had a vasectomy as he didn’t ever want me to go through that again and we’d decided that our family was finished years ago.
about three months ago I had my period and experienced severe bleeding - changing an overnight pad every hour and the thought crossed my mind to do a pregnancy test as it was exactly like my miscarriage, however I think I was too scared and couldn’t go to shops because of bleeding and didn’t want to ask my partner and bring it all back again.
however now I wish I did because not knowing is killing me. I think about it every day and wonder.
my partners vasectomy was four years ago, surely if it was unsuccessful we’d have know before now (we never actually got his sperm sample results back, because it was COVID and the world had gone mad and by the time we thought about it it seemed like so long ago no need to bother.
has anyone here ever become pregnant following their partners vasectomy?
or is there anyway to find out now if I was in fact pregnant and miscarried again?