No help always being put down

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I have 10 month old twins they are good don’t get me wrong but the night atm they don’t sleep all the way through I know it could be because they are teething and learning new things but I’m up and down all night partner just sleeps through and If he does here them he nudges me to get up and go see to them…..I say to him I’m running on fumes and all I get is well I’ve been at work all day aswell. When we have a little argument all I get is that I’m fat and ugly and names I can’t say on here and baring in mind I have give him twins and with c section so not the easiest to lose the pouch and all he always seems to say (this is why I didn’t want to have kids) it’s starting to make me feel really down and like I’m on my own with my babies which I would give my life for…..any advice please

This is abuse. Start looking for a way to leave.

Ditch the deadbeat 'dad'. That's my advice. Do you have any other support or family on hand? What's your living and financial position?

@Justcallmebebes im comfortable in my living situation and I have family but feel like I’m the odd one out with them…i just feel worthless and all the names I get called just makes me worse

Please leave him. He is an absolute shit.

This is so sad. You shouldn’t be treated abusively like this at all by your partner.

Abuse can be by inaction- by not doing his parenting responsibilities- it is called withholding necessary care, or commonly neglect. Abuse isn’t always doing physically bad things.

Name calling is verbal abuse.

You feel alone, because you are alone.
It is also worse to be alone with someone who is refusing to pull their weight.