So I’m 32 weeks pregnant, I’m really struggling. Mentally and physically. I live with my boyfriend and we are in a different country to our family so we don’t have a support system.
when I found out I was pregnant I wasn’t sure I wanted this but he convinced me we can do it.
he helped me during the first trimester.
fast foward to now and I’m just alone.
he works 6 days a week and brings A LOT of money in which I’m thankful for. However he wakes up at 6pm and starts work at 7:30pm. He leaves all his clothes everywhere and takeaway containers after work.
he’s not helped get anytning ready for the baby I’ve had to do it all alone. He’s genuinely not got a single thing for the child.
he moans he’s tired but then would go out after work for 2/3 hours with his mates drinking.
or he pays 2k to go and see Tyson fury 8 hour flight away when I’m heavily pregnant.
he has 0 sleep getting fligjts and getting up early to go and see the fight but can’t do that for me and his child.
i ask him to take one more day off a week and he says no basically.
I don’t drive so we have no food in at the moment , I asked him to get waters from the shop on the way home and he couldn’t even do that.
I’m breaking down to him telling him how depressed and alone I am and that still isn’t a good enough reason for him to help me.
im not sure what to do any more. I understand he wants us to have money but why can’t he see money isn’t worth more then my health.