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CJones11 · 24/05/2024 08:11

Hello.

I'm looking for some advice and experiences of struggling with pregnancy options.

I have found out that I'm pregnant, very early, but I feel like my situation is simultaneously falling apart. I already have 2 children (6 and 1) who are wonderful. Next year, due to my workplace closing I will be looking for a new job which means this is not the ideal time at all. I'm just panicking about finances, the pressure a new child will put on my existing children and yet the thought of terminating is filling me with guilt, even though I know its the most logical option.

My husband is fully supportive of any decision. He has said it does concern him the impact another will have on us both mentally but also said we have always found ways to make things work.

I think I would like another in the future and maybe uts unfair of me to terminate now and try for another in the future? I don't know. I still feel so young (28).

I guess I'm looking for stories of people in similar situation and what helped them make their decision.

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Wednesdaysotherchild · 24/05/2024 10:08

There’s a pregnancy choices board that might be more relevant to your query?

CJones11 · 24/05/2024 16:22

Where is that? I'm not too familiar with this app!

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moosey89 · 24/05/2024 18:58

Go to talk > body and soul > pregnancy choices

I don't have any advice unfortunately but I'm sure there will be women who have experience and can help discuss this with you. Good luck with your decision xx

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