Bleeding all through pregnancy

[Anon1987y]

Hi all
19 weeks pregnant after miscarriage 2 months prior to bfp. iv been bleeding since 6 weeks. Sometimes heavy red gushes , sometimes pink spotting now brown spotting/gushes.
Im mentally exhausted.
iv been in and out of hospital all scans show baby doing okay , moving around , good heart beat. At 7 weeks scan showed a very large hematoma but by my 12 week scan they couldn’t see it.
But I was still bleeding. Then I stopped bleeding for about 2 weeks and then started bleeding again at 16 weeks and I’m still bleeding now with brown gushes and spotting. I should add Iv never been in any pain with the bleeding. They’ve seen baby on scan last week and heard heartbeat and iv had an internal. Everything looks fine. I can also feel baby fluttering and moving now. Waiting now for 20 week scan in 2 weeks (which I’ll actually be 21weeks).
I'm exhausted with the bleeding and feel like my mental health is taking a toll because of it. Im terrified everytime i go toilet.
I cant enjoy the pregnancy. I haven’t even looked at baby stuff. I’m terrified.
I don’t know why I’m writing this , just feel like I could do with maybe some positive stories or advice ?

I had the same issue with my first pregnancy and bled between 12-22 weeks, it was completely exhausting and I couldn’t enjoy the pregnancy. I completely emphasise with you and understand how stressful it is. As hard as it is, focus on those lovely flutters. I used to tell myself that was my way of my baby telling me they were ok. Baby came completely healthy with no reason found for bleeding. Very frustrating! I’m pregnant with baby 2 and having the same issues again. Hopefully they can give you a reason at your upcoming scan ❤️🌼

I bled all the way through my first pregnancy, was in and out of hospital every few weeks with it, was under consultant care and had lots of extra scans because of it, had loads of internals too to check my cervix ect but ultimately they never found a cause for it all. Luckily baby was absolutely fine but was so worrying for me at the time, was anxious for my whole pregnancy

I'm going through this too been bleeding on and off since 9 weeks I'm 17 now. I have a subchorionic hematoma which is actually common sounds like it's what you have too. There's a FB support group for this www.facebook.com/groups/221413991615124/?ref=share

Thankyou so much for your replies.
It's nice to know I'm not alone but I'm sorry that some of you are going through it or went through it too.
I'm just so worried all the time , my 20 week scan seems so far away.
I feel like it's all that's on my mind everyday.

I am 7 weeks pregnant and just been for a scan today to check for heartbeat - All was well 🙂 (thank goodness) I had 3 occasions where I had full on bleed in the matter of 3 weeks and I have brown spotting on and off. I have heard and read on this group that this is normal with IVF pregnancies (which mine is). Just wanted to let you know that bleeding doesn’t always mean it’s bad news. While it can be worrying and exhausting, it’s also good to know that it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s negative.

Hi , thought I would come back incase anyone was reading this and would like to know the outcome. Hopefully it will give some hope. I now have a 7 month old baby boy, he was born 8 weeks early but did really well. I don’t know if the bleeding was linked to the fact he was born early but he is here strong and doing well. I bled the entire pregnancy but thankfully a positive outcome. Hope this will
give someone some hope :) x