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Convinced of Eptopic pregnancy

34 replies

Estateagent33 · 24/04/2024 19:07

I am trying really hard to be level headed about this, after 5 failed IVF attempts, chemical pregnancies and losses. I never for a minute thought I would get pregnant naturally.

My DH and I have just come back from a short break in Spain, in the airport my DH asked when I was due on, I brushed it off but realised I hadnt. When I got home I did a test, to my amazement it was two very pink lines appeared quickly followed by a digitaltest that said 2 -3 weeks, so still really early days.

Now here is where I am yet to feel the excitement for worry. I had a bad back for the last few days of the trip, which has now almost gone but not completely. I have had a consent dull aching pain that doesn't hurt as such, but I am aware of it and that doesnt change to other parts of my stomach it is just in my left lower abdomen. I spotted once, each day for two days, that was minimal brown staining of the tissue.I have no pregnancy symptoms, no shoulder pain, no temperature.

I called the doctors, they said to fill out the mid wife form on line and someone will call me. I dont want to be dramatic but I am absolutely petrified, there doesnt seem any point going to epu because I doubt they would be able to see anything so early on?

I would be ever so grateful for someones thoughts/ experiences with this. I cant believe getting pregnant has happened to me but I couldn't cope if it was one I had to loose.

TIA

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Leonarda89 · 27/04/2024 16:20

Estateagent33 · 27/04/2024 15:14

Hi all, thank you for taking time to respond. Its sad news... Its in my fallopian tube which requires emergency surgery this evening to remove. My heart is breaking as I sit in this hospital room alone, waiting for the first baby I have ever conceived naturally to be taken away.

But on the plus side. I managed to conceive naturally! Even if it wasnt smart enough to know where it was supposed to go.

Thanks for all your support x

So sorry to hear this 😢 thinking of you 💕

WickWood · 27/04/2024 17:21

I'm so sorry x

Lucylaughing · 27/04/2024 17:27

So sorry this has happened to you. Thanks for posting the info in this thread, I think it will help other people as well. I'm also waiting to find out what's going on with my pregnancy - low and slow rising HCG (IVF pregnancy). I might be in your shoes next week.

Sending you strength

Starbugg · 27/04/2024 19:28

Oh OP. I’m so sorry to read that. How very unfortunate. Sending you love and warm wishes.

Kittylickingplate · 28/04/2024 03:33

I am so sorry x

DemelzaRobins · 28/04/2024 08:35

Sorry to hear that OP and I hope the surgery went well 💐

H20202 · 28/04/2024 16:39

@Estateagent33 so sorry to hear, wishing you a speedy recovery. Look after yourself xx

NSC1980 · 28/04/2024 17:24

Estateagent33 · 27/04/2024 15:14

Hi all, thank you for taking time to respond. Its sad news... Its in my fallopian tube which requires emergency surgery this evening to remove. My heart is breaking as I sit in this hospital room alone, waiting for the first baby I have ever conceived naturally to be taken away.

But on the plus side. I managed to conceive naturally! Even if it wasnt smart enough to know where it was supposed to go.

Thanks for all your support x

I’m so sorry. The same thing happened to me and I had emergency surgery on Friday to remove the tube. It was my second pregnancy following a miscarriage on 14th February after a long time of trying. It was meant to be my happy ending and at 41, I feel like this was my chance. At home now, feeling utterly bereft and wondering how I’ll get through this.

H20202 · 28/04/2024 17:26

@NSC1980 so sorry too - it’s truly awful. Wishing you a speedy recovery too 💔 xx

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