Right this is so jumping the gun but I think thats why its got me rattled to be honest. Im 6 weeks pregnant and my mum has declared that she will do me a deal.. she will come and stay when I have this first baby! (hmmm im sure ive seen this on a friends episode).
Im hormonal and its annoyed me for a few reasons but I wanted people who have been there to tell me whether I should accept wholeheartedly.
She lives more than 60 miles away and my inlaws are on the doorstep which annoys her. I think she wants to stay to get her foot in the door before them literally. But in my head i had this ideal of me DH and the DC all coming home and learning together, not with a matriachal figure standing over. Now I know she means well and she would be a help but even the thought is intrusive to the bubble I had created in my head.
So help, is it an unrealsitic idillic dream to be just us three or should i truly take up the offer. the other thing is that if she is here surely the inlaws will see it as a green light to be round all the time too! eek 8 months to go and already other people are making be stressed out!