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Abortion / end of pregnancy

5 replies

Julie1997x · 20/01/2024 22:31

Hi all,

i had an abortion on the 22nd of December but lost the abortion pregnancy test they gave me. Stupidly, me and my husband have been having sex but not when Iv been ovulating as I track it via flo.

I was due on yesterday and didn’t come on. Is it normal after an abortion for periods to be all over the place or am I pregnant again?

I cannot go through that again, although I don’t regret it at all if I am pregnant due to our stupidity I don’t think I can have another termination.

my head is all over the place - both previous births ended in emergency C-section and last pregnancy only 7 months ago I had severe pre eclampsia and hospitalised for 2 weeks before having baby by emergency section bang on 38 weeks

please no judgement - I feel incredibly guilty and heartbroken. When I look at my 7 month old now and realise what I may have got myself into on literally the first cycle after my abortion.

I have no idea when my period will return and if I even am pregnant. My head is scrambled

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3under · 20/01/2024 22:34

It might have affected your cycle, yes, but also you are likely to be more fertile just now. I'd buy a high street pregnancy test tomorrow to be sure x

Ap24 · 20/01/2024 22:36

Yes your periods could be irregular. I think the most important thing you can do is buy an early response type pregnancy test and take it from there. One step at a time.

cattreetower · 21/01/2025 11:19

Hi, sorry to jump on an old thread, but I need some advice. I had a MA on 27th November. All went fine (aside from the emotional distress) and it was successful. I had my first period 25th-31st December. I have been tracking my periods on flo, and it says I was likely to be fertile from 1st-9th Jan. For some stupid reason, I didn't think I could be fertile the day after my period ended, and I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend (just that day, the rest we used the pull out method). According to the app, I was due on my period yesterday, and I've had nothing. Could this just be my body getting back to normal again and normal that the periods might be a bit sporadic? I'm too scared to think about taking a test just yet. I cannot go through another abortion, it almost destroyed me last time. I've been waiting for this period to book an appointment to have the coil put in as I can't go through this every month. Please be kind, I've really struggled with this and I know we should have been more careful. Thank you.

cattreetower · 21/01/2025 11:50

Sorry, I should have said the app predicted that I ovulated on 5th January.

cattreetower · 21/01/2025 22:04

Anyone? 🙏🏼

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