Hello,
As the title says I have a C section booked for tomorrow and I’m so so scared so looking for reassurance.
I already have a 20 month old so will be 2 under 2.
Im scared about everything.
Scared of the C section itself. I had one with my first but that wasn’t planned so I had no time to think about it and don’t remember much tbh as I was so exhausted from the labour before.
It feels unnatural knowing for weeks and weeks that tomorrow I will be having my baby and major surgery. Too much time to think and build it up in my head I think.
How I will manage 2 under 2s after a c section.
How difficult life is about to come with them both.
Baby was planned and I have a VERY hands on supportive DP and a supportive hands on wider family and grandparents and friends. So I know I’ll have support and help whilst I recover. I guess I’m scared about life after recovery and the C section itself.
any words of advice?