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Pregnant - help

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Bluegreenyelloworangered · 13/01/2024 11:30

I've found myself in a situation I never thought I'd be in and I feel like I can't talk to a single person in my life about it.

I already have one DC with my partner, I love her to bits and she's 14 months old.
I've just found out I'm about 2 weeks pregnant again.
We weren't planning it and I don't feel ready to have two little ones. We don't have the space or the money at the moment and I'm in a temporary contact with work.
The thing that's really making it difficult is that I have been thinking a lot recently about whether I'm actually happy in my relationship and if I want to stay in it. I don't think I'm in love with my DP anymore. I don't want to just stay with him because of this baby but on the other hand I don't want to be a single mum with two young DCs and not much financial stability.

He's not ready for another baby yet either and has suggested an abortion. I generally don't know what I want to do.

OP posts:
AnneLovesGilbert · 13/01/2024 11:41

Only you know what feels right, or least wrong. If you don’t want to stay with him then proceed on that basis, that whichever option you take you’ll be doing it on your own. Sorry you’re in this difficult place 💐💐💐

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