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Pregnant - help

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Bluegreenyelloworangered · 13/01/2024 11:30

I've found myself in a situation I never thought I'd be in and I feel like I can't talk to a single person in my life about it.

I already have one DC with my partner, I love her to bits and she's 14 months old.
I've just found out I'm about 2 weeks pregnant again.
We weren't planning it and I don't feel ready to have two little ones. We don't have the space or the money at the moment and I'm in a temporary contact with work.
The thing that's really making it difficult is that I have been thinking a lot recently about whether I'm actually happy in my relationship and if I want to stay in it. I don't think I'm in love with my DP anymore. I don't want to just stay with him because of this baby but on the other hand I don't want to be a single mum with two young DCs and not much financial stability.

He's not ready for another baby yet either and has suggested an abortion. I generally don't know what I want to do.

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AnneLovesGilbert · 13/01/2024 11:41

Only you know what feels right, or least wrong. If you donโ€™t want to stay with him then proceed on that basis, that whichever option you take youโ€™ll be doing it on your own. Sorry youโ€™re in this difficult place ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

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