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29 weeks pregnant and very angry and raging

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1stpregnancywoes · 26/12/2023 20:15

Hi everyone, yesterday (Xmas day and today boxing day '23) were really rough days for me. I have been hit really badly by pregnancy rage, first time. I normally am a little wound up and snappy as a person mostly period related, but on the whole I am relatively relaxed and patient.

Yesterday my husband who is actually a really good person, and someone I absolutely adore really upset me, it's safe to say I didnt take this very well. I felt like I just lost it emotionally, didn't feel like he listened, and just doesn't seem to know me at all. Well I experienced my first rage. I got very upset and didn't want to be near him, I shouted at him and was verbally cross at him.
I feel I have just lost it emotionally. I made.the dinner myself, my family arrived , they left and I went straight to bed..I feel terrible and I also feel very angry and really sad that.he doesn't seem to know me at all. I am totally overwhelmed with rage and anger and it doesn't even seem that bad.now I reflect and type it.out. I have felt awful, banging doors, throwing things in my room, away from him, ignoring him. I just.cant seem to stop feeling angry. Has anyone else felt this way? I am ashamed, angry and upset and it's just too much. I love him dearly but between the both of us I feel we have totally spoilt our final xmas.alone. I went.to bed at 7pm.last night and didn't appear until.1pm today. I have felt anger and then have been crying non stop for 2 days and I feel I don't know what to do. He has apologised but I can't seem to stop feeling angry!

Help. I am not used to this at all especially so late in my pregnancy. Christmas has not been enjoyable at all.

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Nearlythere80 · 26/12/2023 21:08

I think you just need to chalk this up to the 'not real feelings' idea that I found really helpful when i had l lots of horrible emotions during ivf and then pregnancy. Yes he probably hasn't been perfect etc but if you can just acknowledge that your brain isn't quite your own it'll help you apologise to him and you can both feel better without minimisation of any real things that need thinking about

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