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Late period BFNs so far, going crazy wondering

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loopydeloop · 24/11/2023 11:44

So backstory is not TTC but last month I dreamed I was pregnant and it made me open up that discussion. My partner, ever practical, said it may be too difficult to consider given I have many health issues (chronic migraine, mental health wobbles, chronic fatigue syndrome) but something within me really wanted to anyway, but I put it down to being more emotional since the dream and decided to give it more thought.

This month, I'm 7 days late (if my period came on the earliest day of my cycle) and 1 day late if it had come the latest day. I average 29 days and have had 33 in past and I'm cd 34 today. Have taken multiple tests since being late and all bfns but still no AF. I'm going nuts with the not knowing. I'd be happy if I was pregnant actually, not sure about if not, every time bfn I feel disappointed but hope I just tested too early or something. I have a clear blue digital still in wrapper I'm just too scared to use now after all the bfns from cheapo stick ones!

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princefamilypaper · 24/11/2023 16:52

Late periods are so cruel when you want to be pregnant. When we started TTC I was 11 days late. All BFN and my period suddenly arrived super late and I never knew why!

loopydeloop · 24/11/2023 22:40

Yeah it sucks, I just don't know how many more days to wait and see if it shows up, I want to forget about all this uncertainty but I can't. I'm convincing myself I'm pregnant as I have some symptoms that could be such as sore boobs, going to the toilet a million times an hour this morning, some cramps that I keep thinking could be AF but then they don't get strong enough and she doesn't come, even noticed my cat being more clingy with me and convincing myself she's sensing something... but then when I properly think it through, most likely explanation is I'm just late for some unknown reason and because I'm wondering if I'm pregnant I'm noticing subtle pms type things I wouldn't ordinarily pay much attention to.

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loopydeloop · 25/11/2023 10:29

Well AF came today while I was out shopping. Thought I was fine until by some cruel twist of fate driving home the radio was playing "the girl that never was".

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