3rd miscarriage

[Unicornmum25]

I found out today that I am having my 3rd miscarriage. I don't even really know why I'm writing in this, I just feel really sad and low. I have a little girl who is 5 and a half and I've been desperately trying to give her a little brother or sister but I just feel like time is passing us by and it's never going to happen. I will be 38 very soon too which also isn't great.
My first miscarriage was in 2021 and that was a missed miscarriage which I found out about at the 12 week scan, the baby was measuring at 8 weeks, the second was a partial molar pregnancy in 2022 and today I should have been approximately 7 weeks pregnant.

@Unicornmum25 I am so sorry. It’s absolutely heartbreaking. I have had recurrent miscarriages too and it’s just absolutely awful.

I just wanted to let you know you’re not alone and that the way you’re feeling it totally understandable. Don’t hide or hide from your feelings.

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Just wanted to say i'm so sorry this has happened to you and it's really sad and shit. Feel free to grieve in what ever ways are right and help you to cope. In many places you can get investigations after 2 miscarriages, look up Tommy's charity website. I know this does not help your current situation but it may be you can look into it when you feel ready to help understand whether there is any particular cause or just really sad luck

I'm so sorry to read what an awful time you are having, it's unbelievably hard and lonely. It might be too soon but I just wanted to second Tommy's, testing with them was pivotal in my journey with RM when I was banging my head against the wall battling with GP and NHS testing.