Hi all, first time poster here. I am currently 21+4 and it’s been a bit a journey to get here (3 miscarriages pre 12 weeks) and years of trying…but it finally happened for us. I’m 39 and will be 40 when the baby hopefully arrives healthy.
Reason I say hopefully, is I ended up in hospital recently with a red degeneration fibroid - the pain was crazy! I’ve never felt so poorly. 10 days later I finally was allowed home but during the process of determining what was going on with me, they discovered a short cervix that went from 1.9 on first scan to 1.2 4 days later…
We were terrified and they started talking preterm, survival etc so I was highly emotional, especially as I was in severe pain (morphine didn’t even help) after bed rest and cyclogest 400mg (twice a day) for 5 days it’s increased back to 1.8.
I am currently under a preterm clinic and still in the cyclogest, I had a scan last week at 2.1 so it’s going in right direction. Given I’m finally not in pain I can start to think straight and more positively.
I know I’m far from out of the woods, it’s still causing me endless anxiety and I’m also terrified to move. I am just so worried.
The stitch wasn’t offered when I was in pain and the risks but given pain has now subsided I thought that they would offer me the stitch now but they feel if the cyclogest is working we carry on. Maybe I should trust the process but after week 24 they won’t offer the stitch so I feel when I go back this week for my follow up if it’s not moved from 2.1 should I insist…
I am so scared to be in this situation given my history but I feel totally overwhelmed with knowing what’s for the best. Any stories out there that could help me make my decision or push for the stitch .. the consultant said some women have a short cervix and they don’t know and go full term.. really, how would they know that after birth..
sorry for mammoth post, it’s been a traumatic time x thank you x