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Smiler89 · 12/10/2023 02:04

Hi , I am 7 weeks pregnant and already have 2 beautiful kids 8 and 14 ,I was admitted at hospital couple days ago ,once I got home I found out that my husband as left us without telling anyone and no reason , what should I do , please advice me

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Charming81 · 12/10/2023 09:14

Oh dear, I am so sorry. Are you sure he just left? Did he take anything with him? Is it possible that something happened to him?

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Smiler89 · 15/10/2023 05:33

Yeah 100% he left as he has taken all his belonging with him amd he's blocked me so I have no way of contacting him myself, i have seen around the area but he's acting like I don't exists when he sees me

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Hiddenvoice · 15/10/2023 07:28

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Are you close to anyone in his family that you could chat to and find out what’s going on?
Was he at home with the other children whilst you were in hospital?

Charming81 · 15/10/2023 09:33

It seems a bot odd. You are married, so for sure, you know his relatives. If you see him he can't pretend he doesn't know you. You are married and have children! I mean, all this is just very strange.

LizzeyBenett · 15/10/2023 16:07

Does he have any mental health issues ?

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Smiler89 · 18/10/2023 13:31

My kids have been with my mum while I was in hospital, I have spoken to his family and they all said it not like him to act like that that's what scarys me he is healthy has no mental health issues what so ever

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Smiler89 · 18/10/2023 13:31

No what I'm aware of or his family are aware of

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Hiddenvoice · 18/10/2023 13:47

It all seems very strange. How was your relationship before you ended up in hospital? Is he your children’s father?
Have you asked any of his family to speak to him and ask him to get in touch?

LizzeyBenett · 18/10/2023 14:21

How are the finances can you see what he has been spending ? I'm wondering has he a gambling problem that you may not know about or some other addiction , the pregnancy might of triggered something .

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Smiler89 · 19/10/2023 05:24

I suffer from rare blood condition and was admitted, every relationship has up amd downs but noting concering that would make him take the easy wasy out a leave and yes he Is the father of my 2 kids and the one I carrying

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Smiler89 · 19/10/2023 05:29

Unfortunately I have no access to any information at the moment, all I know is we have been trying for this baby for 4 years and when it finally happened he took the easy way out ad walked away leaving me and the kids unsupported,

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Charming81 · 19/10/2023 07:16

I still find all this very, very odd. Where did he go? If you see him and he ignores you he must still be around. It is just nonsense that no one has spoken to him (family, relatives, friends). I don't know, this story is so surreal is seems fake

morag1234 · 19/10/2023 07:21

This does seem weird.
What is the background to this story?

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Smiler89 · 19/10/2023 16:12

I really do wish it was fake I wouldn't be on here asking for advice the background to the story is he walked out on me and his kids and leaving us worried about him , yes he is in the same area and yes he has blocked me and yes he's acting weird like we don't exist that's what is making me worried his family are all worried as he would not talk to anyone

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