Hiya,
I found out this morning that I am pregnant and I have no idea what to do. I am currently living with my parents and am 34 years old with a daughter who is 3. I am back with my parents as I left my daughters father when she was 18 months old as he was domestically abusive. Neither her or I have any contact with him.
I have a new partner and he is a really really great guy, we are in love, planning to move in together, get engaged and we do see ourselves having a child in the future.
I just don't feel that now is the right time.
I know that it is NEVER the right time to have a baby but we can barely afford our lives as it is, both in debt, not living together and never having any money spare at the end of the month - I just don't know how it would be fair to bring another baby into this situation.
I know that my parents will be so disappointment - I am torn I feel that maybe this isn't the right time and I need to take the next steps but I wondered if anyone else has been in this situation before xxx