Hi
Will try to keep it brief but I have a 2 year old daughter who was born by EMCS at 40+10 following a failed induction of labour. I am now 12 weeks pregnant with number 2.
i was induced at 40+7 as I had developed pre eclampsia, I wasn’t keen but was told that I was risking mine and my babies health if I went against the advice and I was shocked and vulnerable (the pre eclampsia was came on sudden but looking back there were missed signs).
Over the 3 days between being induced and the EMCS my labour progressed very slowly and my blood pressure kept increasing. Staff shortages also impacted my care and I was left over 24 hours after waters breaking before they took me to delivery to give me the drip. By the time I got there my blood pressure was very high and my baby wasn’t moving enough to get me on the drip. A failed epidural and a few other things later I had a section. I was only 4cm dilated.
I was pretty traumatised by the birth, the exhaustion of being awake for four days, lack of skin to skin afterwards, struggles to feed and was on blood pressure meds for 8 weeks after. I am very keen to have a more positive experience this time around.
A part of me wants the experience of a vaginal delivery and potentially quicker recovery, a part of me thinks I am mad to not take the elective section. I would not be induced and I would not want the drip if I went into labour and it slowed off I would rather go straight to a section.
This of course is all dependent on not developing pre eclampsia again or seeing my BP creep up in late pregnancy, any of that would convince me to have ELCS.
Any thoughts please?
thanks!