Advice/someone to talk to

[no1babyno1]

Long story sorry

I need some advice/someone to talk to really

I've just found out I'm pregnant with my 2nd I'm think I may be around 8 weeks. normally I would be happy and excited

But....

We have recently been evicted due to our landlord selling.
Prices have gone up so I can't afford to rent another place at the minute so myself and my daughter (age 4) are sharing a tiny box room at a family members house

I'm in a bit of debt ( no judgement please)
I am working part time but now she's started school. Ive been looking for a new job.

My car has also broken and I can't afford to fix it.

Myself and her dad have just decided to take a break as things are getting a bit much. We have been together 7years and have both grown apart a bit and things felt more like friends. But still on good terms. ( that's a whole different story)

I've got an interview tomorrow. ( I applied for the job before I knew I was pregnant) do I tell them I'm pregnant ?
Do I not tell them yet as it may not get me the job?

Also I'm so scared to tell my parents as my situation isn't the best and I know they will be disappointed.
No house
No money
Single
And only part time working.

I did try and talk to a friend. Her advice was it's not the right time this and that. She suggest maybe getting an abortion.
I'm not against abortions but I don't think it's a route for me. I don't know if I could do that and still be able to carry on normally.
But I also know that I'm not in a situation that is the best.

Sorry to hear you are going through such a tough time.

I can't advise re abortion etc but just wanted to say there is absolutely no need to mention anything at the interview re pregnancy. Do not mention anything. Even after you've been offered it, there's no need to mention it. There are plenty of people who interview even in late stages of pregnancy and don't mention it unless offered the role.

All the very best luck with the interview ❤️

As you are pregnant you will be expedited for counselling. Ask your midwife/GP to refer you or self-refer yourself to your local service, you should be seen in 2-3 weeks. Your hospital might also have mental health specialist midwives who can support you too.

OP, just didn't want to read and run. You are a very brave lady and your daughter is lucky to have you. I'm not in your shoes, so it's hard to give an opinion, but if you feel you should have the baby, I say go with your instincts.
I also think you should say nothing about the pregnancy at this stage at your job interview.
Wondered if you can ask for support from your family or partner. Usually it's time like this when they need to be there for you.