Hi, I was wondering whether my situation is quite common or whether I should push the midwife/hospital more...
Essentially, baby's breech (confirmed breech since week 35), community midwife told me to wait until 38 weeks before having any conversations about the plan going forward. The midwife didn't believe that baby was breech as she thought they turned even though I knew it wasn't the case! Because she waited for so long I only spoke with the specialist breech midwife for the first time today (38+6) (after my multiple calls to the hospital after having had my scan done last Friday confirming breech baby). I was only offered an ECV for the first time today as well. As the clock is ticking we've decided to go for a planned c section, skipping the ECV.
We were however told that there are no slots available for a planned section... We were put on the 'waiting list' (god knows how many more people are on that list...) and we have to wait until 40 weeks before they consider treating my case as a bit more urgent (and the midwife said it would be only 'a bit'). So essentially, I need to wait till my labour starts before they do a section so they can do an emergency one (the midwife said she was sorry but yeah, that's pretty much the case as they will have to prioritise me then).
Has anyone been in a similar situation? I am getting increasingly nervous as I do not want to end up having a breech vaginal birth (I keep thinking what if the labour progresses really quickly, we do live quite far from the hospital...). What would you do? Push the hospital more? I did have a lengthy conversation with the midwife expressing my concerns but definitely still very far from being pushy, it didn't sound like she could do much more herself.
Any advice would be much appreciated!