I feel like my husband doesn't care about me or our pregnancy

[August21yellowbaby]

We've been together 8 years, we have a 2 year old and have been Ttc since he was born.
I told him the other day I was pregnant, by putting our son in a cute big brother t shirt, my husband hugged me and said congratulations, it almost felt like he was congratulating a friend or family 😞
Since then I've been in hospital a few times with high heart rate and high infection markers. Had a scan but no yolk in the sac, maybe too early (5 weeks) but hospital keep checking my bloods every few days and have another scan next week
He just seems really off with me, he didn't offer to come to the scan with me, didn't ask how it went until hours later, when I told him I felt very anxious at the moment he said "why.."

I don't know if I'm being over sensitive cause of hormones, just feeling really unloved. I have no other family and no friends that I can talk to, so he's my only "person" 😞

Hi @August21yellowbaby
I totally hear you hun, i know that feeling.
This is a very important time in your life, all i can say is completely focus on yourself, eat well and take rest. At times like this i just think i can't depend on anyone, it just makes me stronger and so determined that i will be happy even if the people around me are miserable!
Stay strong hun, you got this and congratulations on your pregnancy xx

My DH is like this in general. It does hurt but he’s amazing in so many other ways. I tell him straight now days to avoid disappointment.

OP if he’s the same have more open communication and direct. I want you to come to this scan etc. I have found that over time with being open and direct he is learning what’s important to me where as before I was just upset.