@Jessieber90 I have not requested on the app, actually at the 16th week routine appointment I asked the midwife if she can log in a maternal request for elective cesarean for me and I mentioned I expect it will take a lot of back and forth as its not something I expect to be granted easily so I want to start the conversation early. She agreed with me that there will need to be some good reasoning and explained at that stage it was just an internal email sent by her requesting that I have a call arranged with the consultant midwife to discuss my concerns. My concerns at that stage were the chances of ending up with emergency c section or instrumental as a first time mom are just too high to be comfortable for me.
The call with the consultant midwife took the longest to arrange. I had to call twice the reception number of the midwife teams I had assigned to check if my request is correctly logged in and still on their list. It was and after about 6 weeks I received the call to arrange this meeting, this call came from management not any of the midwifes - they suggested initially a very late consultant midwife call(around weeks 33) and I said again that I expect there will need to be also a call arranged with other professionals to progress my request as I am having no medical risks and if possible to put it earlier so that we have time for going back and forth. The gentleman from management was very understanding and put the call on around 24 weeks.
Once I had that consultant midwife call, then it was a good another 5 weeks until I had the meeting with the obstetrician to discuss further my request and that is when he signed it off.
I think the best way is to allow a lot of time, they do seem very busy and have just gone through a big IT system change so things can get lost. You might need to follow up a few times just to see if your request is still active, what the next steps are. I'd say keep the requests short and easy to understand for each staff member you deal with. IE if you call reception just ask them to check if they can see the request logged in the system nothing further. As long as everything is in writing made in requests internally they will get back to you.
Try to find out from midwifes the name of consultant midwife who will have the meeting with you and then quote that name if you follow up with phone calls. Basically make their life as simple as possible when you chase and they will be very helpful.
I was so prepared for the fight of my life to have this c-section and I was not ready to allow anyone to decide how I give birth except me but it was not necessary at all. I had all the % rates of shoulder dystocia, emergency c-section, instrumental delivery, asphixiation, Donna Ockenden reports - you name it...ready to quote and justify my decision. It wasnt necessary at all, they have been all very very lovely, all meetings were more a box ticking exercise and reassured me the decision was mine in the end.
Good luck and keep us posted!