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Emergency appointment tomorrow, send some hope please

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nomysundaybest · 11/08/2023 16:39

Hi all just wanted to let you all know that I have an emergency appointment with EPAS in the morning, due to my history of miscarriages, missed miscarriages, (I've had 12 in total)
My last miscarriage was last year on mothers day but I'm hemorrhage and lost too much blood to which i needed a blood transfusion.

I've been under the miscarriage clinc and a gynaecologist did loads of test last year to see if there was any medical reason as to why I lose them, but all my test have come back perfectly and there is no underlying reason! So the gynaecologist said that when I fall pregnant again I'm to go straight onto Progesterone 200mg, 3x a day.
I am around 5-6 weeks pregnant and on progesterone
About 4-5 days ago I started spotting really lightly and was brown to pink discharge, but only when I wiped and this was only happing first thing in the mornings,
So I continued to use the progesterone tablets which seems to stop/ lighten the spotting (i am also having NO cramps or pains at all nor any clots). This morning when I woke it was heavier and was deep red, again I used my progesterone as told and its lightened the spotting but this time has continued all day, again no pains or clots.
I finally managed to get though to the midwifes (called 8 times but no answer) and they have managed to get me an emergency appointment with epas tomorrow morning, I've also been stupid and done another pregnancy test which has come back negative!
I don't want to give up hope and say it's the beginning of another miscarriage! But In my heart I know it's not going to be good news!

Has anyone ever been though something similar and had a positive outcome!
If I am having another miscarriage, should I just stop trying now!! Could the gynaecologist missed something when he did the tests? I really am fed up of it happening now and mentally exhausted!

Please can we all pray that everything is OK 😥
Sorry for the long post.
I'll update Tomorrow after my appointment too, just incase anyone is going though the same thing
Emma x

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Summer2424 · 11/08/2023 16:59

Hi @nomysundaybest
I'm so sorry hun you've have to go through all this xx
I had the heaviest bleed ever at 8 weeks, i soaked the bed sorry tmi, all turned out to be ok.
Praying that everything will be ok for you too xx ❤

LuckyStar511 · 11/08/2023 17:00

Couldn’t just read and run. I’m so sorry I have no experience of this but just wanted to say I’m sending so much love and positive thoughts your way! I hope it all works out well for you xx

Turtlegurl888 · 11/08/2023 17:03

I don't have the same history as you (bless your heart you've been through it) but just wanted to say I had an extremely heavy bleed between 6 and 7 weeks. It started as light pink/brown on toilet paper and progressed over the next couple of days to filling a pad and there were clots too. I thought there was no way that amount of blood couldn't be a miscarriage.

Everything was fine and I'm snuggling a 5 month old right now.

Praying for you xxx

CinderRosie · 11/08/2023 17:17

I couldn’t read and run either so I’m sending you love and hugs and praying all is ok xxx

Un7breakable · 11/08/2023 17:21

🤞 for you.

Have they checked your antibodies?

Fran2023 · 11/08/2023 17:21

Sending you love and support. Glad that you have contact with the miscarriage support services and hope that you get an answer and more help.

nomysundaybest · 11/08/2023 18:11

This was from the gynecologist x

Emergency appointment tomorrow, send some hope please
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nomysundaybest · 11/08/2023 18:12

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Emergency appointment tomorrow, send some hope please
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nomysundaybest · 11/08/2023 18:41

Thank you all for the lovely messages, I appreciate it!
I'm just so scared! My first ever pregnancy ended in a miscarriage, then I had my son full term, then I had a prem daughter at 28weeks, then had 3 miscarriages, had another full term baby boy then had another 5 miscarriage then 5 years later had a beautiful full term baby girl, then 4-5 years I've had another 4 miscarriages, 2 were missed miscarriage and had to have a d&c's, and with one I'm hemorrhaged and was really poorly. I know people will say well you've got 4 kids concentrate on them, but me and my husband are financially stable and we are also from very big families! We'd love to have just 1 more baby! But it's not looking very positive for us, maybe it's my body telling me no more! Maybe 4 is my limit! I am really lucky to have my 4 beautiful kids I really am! Having not so much luck in this department has made me realise this even more how luck I am! And I cherish my kids more than anything in this world! I just want to get tomorrow over with now so I can concentrate on my babies I have now and make some more memories with them! Let's get this over and done with ❤❤

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nomysundaybest · 12/08/2023 10:59

Like I thought, I lost the baby again..

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USaYwHatNow · 12/08/2023 11:08

I'm sorry to hear your sad update.

CinderRosie · 12/08/2023 11:55

Oh @nomysundaybest I’m sorry to hear your news. I hope you have lots of people around to support you. Sending love 💕

Coinicon · 12/08/2023 15:03

So sorry @nomysundaybest ❤️

nomysundaybest · 12/08/2023 19:19

Thanks everyone, I knew it wasn't good news, and to be honest I've got used to it now! Never mind at least my minds at rest now and can finally do something nice with my kids xxx

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