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Sunshinevibes91 · 29/07/2023 13:23

Im in such a mess (mentally) just really need some advice or opinions please..

Nearly 12 weeks pregnant with my 4th baby and I honestly couldn't feel any less negative about the whole situation.

I feel sick morning till night and throw up most things I have eaten. My midwife checked my pee and I had no ketones in it as I've been drinking water like it's going out of fashion.. nothing else was mentioned about sickness tablets which after reading some posts on here im to scared to take In case they make me feel worse .

I feel so incredibly guilty on my other 3 children as im practically in bed all day every day with feeling this sick it's making me depressed 😞.

I have split with the dad (new partner) as I just can't even bare to be in the same room as him. He's so lovely aswell helps as much as he can with my house and kids and tries his best to look after me. He's back living full time as his flat instead of sleeping a few times a week .

I just feel so alone and im the I've causing it in the first place. There's so much I Wana get on with Nd I literally can't move about without borking and bad Smell's and im sick.

I've spoke to many people I know and they say it's normal it's hormones things will get better but honestly I just don't feel like it ever will. I've many a times wondered if an abortion would be the right choice but I chose to try for a baby so I don't think I could go through with it but I'm just so at a loss I've tried all sorts and nothing at all helps

Sorry for such a long post 😞

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bookbathnap · 29/07/2023 17:35

It will get better I promise! You’re really in the thick of the worst bit but just try to rest and survive each day and you will soon start to have good days. Your other children will be fine. It’s just a tiny portion of their life. Best of luck x

snoopy18 · 29/07/2023 17:37

It’s definately worth trying the meds to help with the nausea / sickness. If it’s HG it may not edge off without help. I struggled a lot during first pregnancy but thought it was me being lame & didn’t know there was help. This pregnancy doc has prescribed meds as it’s HG. It’s taking the edge off it so I take on the worse days. Definately speak to your doctor as soon as possible.

Sunshinevibes91 · 29/07/2023 19:36

I'm going to phone up on Monday I can't take feeling like this anymore it's absolutely awful. Thankyou for replying to my post xx

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Summer2424 · 29/07/2023 19:50

Hi @Sunshinevibes91 i totally hear you and hun it's normal to be feeling like this, honestly give it another week or two and things should start to get better, you'll be in your second trimester by then. I know it feels like forever but this time will pass xx

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