Sorry to bump this - was after any of the original posters or some advice!
I was told I had a low lying placenta at 20 week scan. Registrar I saw immediately afterwards looked at the notes and said not to worry and 70% likely it would move out of the way. She booked me in for a 32 week scan.
I've just phoned to try and see if I could put the 32 week scan back by a week to change the date. Midwife said absolutely not, that the placenta was covering the o/s at the 20 week scan and they very much need to check at 32 weeks to see where the placenta is now.
She also said 70% chance of it moving was inaccurate and she couldn't even give me 50/50 odds. And that if it hasn't moved from this position I will be classed as placenta previa, may well get bleeding, may well need bed rest. She said no sex, no lifting at all - all the things that surely the consultant should have told me earlier?
(we have two toddlers and a crazy self-employed work schedule which means our income would be completely ruined if one of us wasn't available).
I feel completely thrown that the registrar said it was so likely to move and that no one explained to me the seriousness of this.
I had to have a section last time as my first twin was breech and this had to be under GA as my platelets dropped.
This time around my platelets are slowly dropping again and I am just heartbroken that I may well need another section and that I may well be knocked out again. I found it very hard to recover from the section, from the GA and emotionally from having had that birth experience.
I just can't bear for it to all happen again.
Sorry I know there are much worse childbirth/medical/life experiences and I should stop feeling sorry for myself - but I feel so panicked and miserable now, I've been lifting my toddlers in and out of cars, working long hours, not getting a huge amount of rest - the sort of life that I imagine most pregnant mums with kids have. And now I wonder how carefully I should be taking things..so confused .