I found out I was pregnant on Tuesday, done a clear blue which said 1-2 weeks. I was spotting before that and assumed it was my period coming but when it didn’t, I did the test. We’ve been trying to conceive for 9 months so we was delighted.
I have a 4 yo who was premature so all future pregnancy’s will be high risk.
I’ve been having some spotting when I wipe some days and other days nothing, it’s usually a light pink in colour (sorry for tmi) but today it turned slightly darker with two small clots- literally so small. This was after a bowel movement (this is when most of the spotting happens) and then I’ve had a lot of brown discharged with stringy bits (again sorry tmi) I’ve had some tummy pain on my right side, especially if I stand too quick, but I had similar with my first.
obviously I’ve panicked. I sent my partner out to get some more clear blue test, it came back positive and said 2-3 weeks so I’m guessing the HCG level is rising? Or would they still rise with an on going miscarriage/ ectopic? I feel like no health care professionals care until your further along, and I completely appreciate that they are over stretched and that if something sinister is happening they cannot prevent it, but I just wanted some advice and they won’t even give that!
im just so scared. My sister had an ectopic over 10 years ago and I still remember the trauma and recovery, I’m so worried something is wrong. The GP won’t do anything in the sense of referring me anywhere and only being 5 weeks no one will see me. I’ve booked an early scan at a private clinic on the 21st but the thought of waiting that long is not good for my soul!
has anyone experienced this before? Is it worth visiting A&E? Or just waiting it out and driving myself insane 🙃😂