Im currently 18 weeks pregnant 3rd child but 2nd with my current partner. My last pregnancy was the pretty much the same but thought this time would be different and thought my partner would be aswell.
I feel so alone, he just dont bother with me at all spends all his time on his phone when he is home and ignoring me. He seems to think because i am at home all day with our 2 year old and he works 4 days a week that he is more important. The other day i had been up all night with our toddler as he had bad night wouldnt sleep my partner got up at 10am complained that i hadnt had a clean round or done dishes. Then we had to go hospital for consultant appointment because of my high blood pressure and then have bloods done which meant we was waiting round hospital for 2 hours and then doctors to have jabs. Then when we got home i was absolutely shattered from only having 1 hours sleep. Im anemic aswell which means gettin tired so easy but what a surprise he was tired so he went for a 3 hour nap while i had our son again! This happens all time when hes home he just goes off and naps whenever and leaves me dealing with our son who i have every single day no help no family. When i get frustrated and trying talking to him about how i feel we end up arguing and i am left being the bad one all time being told pregnancy is no excuse how does every other mother do it. Pregnancy is no excuse i need to sort myself out...i just feel lost..am i just being silly...is he right??!