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Other Half wants me to move 3 1/2 hours away!

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NewMummy2Be94 · 29/06/2023 19:05

Hello, I’m new on here but looking for some advice. I just found out I’m pregnant with my other half, I’m 28 and he’s 34. But we are in a long distance relationship. He lives 3 1/2 hours away from me. When I told him I was pregnant the first thing he said is I will have to move there because no way is he leaving his friends and family to move to me. He has moved away from family before for ex, I mean I understand we are starting a family, but I suffer with anxiety and feel that moving away from my family wouldn’t help me. The thought of having a termination really upsets me, so feel this isn’t an option.

Im constantly worrying about what I should do! Please no judging, just need some advice

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determinedtomakethiswork · 29/06/2023 20:39

I would only do this if he had children in that town. Is that the case? If not no way.

Hill1991 · 30/06/2023 06:42

Don't do it I was living 200miles away when I had my little one and I had a support network there as I'd lived there for 4years before getting pregnant but it was nothing compared to the support network at home I was so glad and relieved when my dp job moved us back to our hometown when my little one was 6weeks old

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 30/06/2023 06:46

You'd been together 2.5 years, what were your plans for the future.

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