Just found out I'm 7 weeks pregnant, unplanned, which feels embarrassing given that I'm in my thirties. I instantly knew that I couldn't have an abortion, completely pro choice but it just doesn't feel right for me right now. The situation isn't ideal, I'm no longer with my partner, although we've been seeing each other casually for a month or so since we broke up. It's a very painful situation still. I know he won't take this pregnancy well, we had a scare last year and he reacted extremely badly, saying he'd kill himself if he had to have another child, which looking back feels like it was emotional blackmail, despite this, he has children from a previous marriage who he is a good father to. I'm considering waiting untill I'm past 12 weeks or later to tell him as I don't know if I can handle the stress of his reaction so early on but I'm not sure if this is morally wrong? I've considered that he may cut me out completely and will have no part in the babies life and I've accepted that I could be doing this completely alone and I still want to continue the pregnancy, this is in no way an attempt to trap him but I also fear he will think this. Any advice is welcome. Thank you.