Morning
I found out I was pregnant on Tuesday. Long story short we've been trying for over 2 years but have gotten nowhere so decided to give up and start enjoying life, like going on holidays etc.
we also bought a bigger house and took on a bigger mortgage, luckily before the massive interest hike 🙈
Anyway we didn't use protection always said what will be will be and somehow it's happened and I'm over the moon . . . Him not so much. He says we can't afford it and said we'll have no quality of life till we're at least 60, we're both 38.
I was a young mum, had 3 by the time I was 23, was 19 when my eldest was born and he's coming up to 19, my youngest is 14 and my middle child is 16, just left school. My kids are with my husband who passed away 4 years ago.
He has a daughter from a previous relationship who's 9, he absolutely dotes on her, they're as thick as thieves and he's a brilliant dad.
I really want this baby but he's adamant we don't, I do get what he's saying, especially as I l spent my youth bringing up babies but as much as I like my holidays and little luxuries I am prepared to but it all on hold to bring this baby up.
He says he loves me and he's going nowhere either way but I'm scared if I go ahead and have the baby he'll resent it and me.
I really don't know what to do
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