Hi
Just looking for positive stories or to see if anyone else has experienced this, as I can't find a huge amount online about having hematomas after 20 weeks.
I had a big bleed at 13 weeks (gushing red blood) and they found a 5 x 4cm (ish) hematoma on my ultrasound. No specific recommendations although I did take the next week off work as I have an active job, and I have reduced my working hours considerably for the foreseeable.
Had a private ultrasound at 16 weeks which showed that the hematoma had shrunk by around 30% so that left me feeling really hopeful.
During this time I had pretty much constant spotting, although as of today I have had no spotting or bleeding for about a week and a half which is a new record.
Today at my 20 week scan, the hematoma has grown and is now about 6.2 x 6.2 x 4cm. I am so upset and anxious. The doctors haven't given me any specific care instructions and I have another scan at 28 weeks. Baby is doing well though.
I am so worried about this and not sure what the believe, I kept being told it would likely resolve by 20 weeks but it has actually grown so am concerned that it is being minimised and I'm not being seen for ages?
Really worried about complications and although if I'm doing the right things. I've put myself on pelvic rest (which sucks as I do miss being intimate with DH) including no sexual stimulation of any kind, I have reduced my working hours. I asked today if I should stop working altogether (on my feet whilst working) and they said only I could decide.
I'm waiting for my community MW to call me later this week to refer for support because being this anxious won't be doing my MH any good and I'd also like to speak to a consultant about the hematoma itself which she said she might be able to sort out.
Has anyone got any stories about hematomas after 20 weeks? Positive please, I think negative stories might finish me off today. Did yours grow? Was everything alright? What did the doctors recommend?