Pregnant with third child don’t know what to do!!

[Natalie1996]

am needing some advice , I have found out at the docs I am pregnant with my third child and I am in two minds what to do as I find it hard with my two as it is , financially can’t but I don’t want to have an abortion as I had one when I was 16 and it changed me so much as a person and mentally but at the time I know it was right for me at such a young age , I am just so scared and confused on what to do and needing abit of advice from someone as I don’t want to ask family as they don’t know yet 😓

Sending big hugs. I have two and if i unexpectedly found myself pregnant I think I would feel exactly the same. Not sure I'd cope again mentally with three kids and work etc so I know what I would have to do.
Do you have a partner? How are they feeling xxx

Do you have a supportive partner?

Yes he’s a brilliant dad , he’s just stressed like me like money etc for when the baby comes , I think I could still be in shock to since I have not long found out and only seen myself having two kids , I just hope the decision comes to me soon xx

I think you're doing exactly the right thing, OP, taking some time to think it over. Trust your own instincts.

I am keeping my baby !! My heart couldn’t take it so we decided to keep the baby, our family knows and is very happy too so I think I just needed a few days to get over the shock , just need to trust the timing and it will come to you , happy with our decision

A baby is always a blessing. Congratulations/

Not always 🙄

OP decided to keep the baby and is happy with the decision though… so is there really any need for your comment? Poster was just congratulating OP.

No it’s not. Rose tinted glasses.

Doesn’t matter, it’s not always a blessing.

i have 3. got pregnant unexpectedly at 37 when my youngest then child was 12. shock was another level. he has really completed our family and made us all so happy. Best surprise every

Congratulations op
Great news🤩