I am currently 30 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. My only issue is with my mil and what her role will be in my child’s life. My husband had quite a traumatic upbringing and to be honest I feel as though he never really had a childhood. His parents split up when he was young and he spent much of his time growing up being expected to act as the other parent by his mother. She has also been emotionally abusive to him growing up and still continues to be. I don’t have much of a relationship with her as I tried to get to know her in the early stages of our relationship but was only ever met with a rude response, so I don’t often see her as haven’t particularly had a need to until this point. My husband wants her involved in our child’s life but the thought of this makes me very upset. The thought of her saying the sort of things she has said to my husband and causing the same kind of insecurities in our child makes me feel protective of him. Not sure if this is just pregnancy hormones making me crazy. Am I being totally unreasonable for not wanting her anywhere near our child?