Hi, I'm new here!
Just found out I'm pregnant yesterday and I dunno what my reason for the post is I just have a few mixed feelings about things (but mostly I am over the moon!)
I haven't told my OH yet as a couple of weeks ago we had a massive argument and he told me he didn't want a baby (due to how he feels about his capabilities as a father - he's suffers with mental health). But if I was to get pregnant he'd make it work.
I also don't want to tell him cause I had a miscarriage in January and I don't want anyone else to know cause in a way I sort of want to block it, i.e. not get excited about anything and telling him will cause us to talk about things and start planning. Hope that makes sense!
I also thought it might be nice to tell him on Fathers Day! But having said all that I'm so desperate to tell him! Should I just tell him?
Another factor is that since the miscarriage I've been suffering with BV and thrush every month and lots of sex hasn't been helping that! I was at the doctors a couple of weeks ago and at that point I was during the 2ww and so she didn't want to treat me in case I was pregnant. Because of that I was convinced I wouldn't be pregnant but now that I am I'm concerned it could affect things, especially after I already miscarried. I'm at the doctors on Wednesday so obviously I will tell them.