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Termination/abortion

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B9r0kre · 01/05/2023 17:15

I found out i was pregnant on Saturday. I had mixed feelings, and was petrified to tell my husband. (Our little girl is 2)
I mustered up the courage yesterday morning, and his reaction was "Call the GP tuesday and take the tablets to end it", and put the tv back on. Nothing else. I was uncontrollably crying whilst sat infront of him because of how he reacted and explained that he could've been kinder. He said "What do you want me to say?". No hugs or comfort, not even asking if I'm okay. I did consider this before he said, so its not the fact he wants me to terminate it, its the fact he's so cold to me.
We've not spoken about it since, I'm nauseas atm and he's just not phased. He's acting like i haven't said anything and nothings happened. I know tomorrow he'll say "have you called the gp?". But how is that fair when he's not comforted or supported me in any way.

Any advice on how i should handle this matter ? Xx

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allgoodthings84 · 01/05/2023 17:33

Firstly I’m so sorry he reacted like that. He sounds very unpleasant (putting it mildly). Take how he feels about it out of the equation for a moment - do you want to terminate? It’s not up to him.

BillyRoachIsOld · 01/05/2023 17:39

You have choices but for your own MH down the line the decision of what you do has to be yours, it has to be right for you.

BabyHope1 · 01/05/2023 17:42

So sorry OP. That sounds so hard. I know men have the tendency of being inconsiderate to a certain level. But I really think you should confront your husband with how you feel. It's not only your to deal with.

Sending you best wishes and thinking of you to be getting through this as well as possible!

Ttcmumma · 01/05/2023 19:04

Hey op, I'm a little concerned as to why you were scared to tell your husband? Is everything ok? He doesn't sound too pleasant so just a little worried about you

B9r0kre · 01/05/2023 20:06

Thankyou for everyones comments!

His opinons and views often dominate mine, and i don't really have a say in things at times. Hence, why i was scared to tell him i was pregnant.. i knew he would tell me to terminate, but wasn't expecting the coldness. Not a word of it since.

I was using ovulation tests as a contraceptive, and I think he blames me for getting pregnant... but it takes 2 to create a baby.

I'm okay @Ttcmumma , thankyou do much for asking ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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