Hi All
Second child due in September and I’m having to consider which route to go down for the birth.
I have a 2yo DD - She will be 2.5 when DS2 is born, - she was born through Emergency CS due to failure to dilate. I stayed at 2cm for 18 hours and baby’s heart started to dip.
I’m incredibly anxious this time round in the pregnancy anyway - I’m an only child and nervous about how a second addition to our family is going to change my relationship with DD. Equally, I have friends whom have suffered tragic vaginal births which makes me nervous. I’m also worried it will be a Covid situation and there won’t be enough people on hand if there’s a problem during VBAC.
But, my biggest worry is uterine rupture. On the one hand I want VBAC because the recovery is quicker and I can’t bare the idea of not being able to pick up my daughter etc for 6 weeks. I also don’t want to have to deliver baby earlier than 38 weeks if I can help it which I think is a factor with ERCS. But on the other hand, I feel if I have an ERCS there are less risks to the baby and myself in terms of uterine rupture?
Has anyone faced a similar dilemma? Are there any symptoms you experienced with UR or indeed anything you advise on which route to go down for the second (and final) pregnancy? I’m terrified something will happen to the baby or indeed myself 😬
Apologies for such a long message, but look forward to hearing some advice.