First post - need some mumsnet wisdom! So MIL has generously offered to buy the cot. I had my heart set on the M/care Bedside one as I thought it would have the pros of co-sleeping without any of the possible dissadvantages. I haven't seen this cot (or any other bedside cot for that matter)in the flesh as none of the stores seem to have it on display. MIL calls this evening from John Lewis saying she's seen a bedside cot there and thinks it's not such a great idea as you would need to have the side on when the baby is sleeping during the day and this would mean shifting it to put the side back on etc etc Thinks a normal cot would be better as you could have the bars up to stop the baby rolling out - this kind of seems to defeat the purpose of having a bedside cot v confused now!