Hi OP,
Unfortunately I think once the dating scan is done, the date they give the is the date on paper and can't be changed.
However you absolutely can decline induction, just be prepared to stick up for yourself. My experience was my official NHS due date was three days earlier than my 'ovulation due date'
I went overdue, luckily had a nice midwife who booked me in for the induction a couple of days later than 'protocol' because she knew I didn't want one. 41+ 5 Instead of 41+2.
I asked her not to book it at all as I knew I would decline, but she said she had to and I could just decline it on the day. It further turned out I wasn't able to ring and decline over the phone, I had to go in to decline. I think they do this on purpose in the hopes that once you're in hospital you'll go for it anyway. They put quite a lot of pressure on, made me feel a bit guilty and went over the 'risks' over and over but I was allowed to leave after some monitoring. As it happens, baby was born early morning the next day at 41+6 (or 41+3 by my dates)
Don't forget, in France 42 weeks is considered term, theres really no line in the sand and baby will come when they're ready. Dont let them pressure you just for NHS protocol!
Sorry that was long but hopefully helpful, it might be different in your trust but always helpful to hear experiences and be prepared. Good luck!
(As an aside I'd also really recommend reading Milli Hill's Positive Birth Book, or Give Birth Like a Feminist which will help with these matters)