Hello, so I’ve been advised by a specialist consultant that due to an anomaly with baby, called an Umbilical Vein Varix, that I should deliver at 37 weeks. I was then referred back to my local hospital and original consultant.
Yesterday I had an awful meeting with the local consultant. She knew nothing of the issue, I told her of my anxiety (UVV is linked to a number of issues and blood flow/clots) so I’m very worried even though baby is doing well and it hasn’t been or expected to be an issue.
I’ve researched into induction that early and have seen that if your body isn’t ready, nothing is going to make that baby come and a sizeable percentage are failed and you end up with a c section. The thought of being pumped full of synthetic drugs and then going through the exhaustion of hours of contractions and then having an emergency c section is just awful…
Due to my anxiety and with the issue, I think an elective C section is the best option for me. The local consultant reluctantly agreed, but we pushed the date to just before 38 weeks to give baby some more time to develop. Her whole attitude was completely non caring, I found her rude.
She mentioned steroids, but failed to give me the leaflet mentioned in my notes… and told me it was my choice but then there’s no information about that choice.
There was no advice, no mention of the steroids and impact on my diabetes and as I don’t have the paper she mentioned if I want the steroids I’ve no idea who to call, when to have them etc.
On the c section pro-forma she incorrectly put me at risk 1, whereas I have gestational diabetes so that’s risk 2…
If I have steroids it will impact my blood sugar which I’ve read may need some time in hospital to stabilise… no mention of this…
So in general I don’t feel informed of my choices… which is the whole point of making these kind of decisions. Being told to effectively chill and stop googling out isn’t what you expect from a consultant who fails to give you the information she says she has.
Has anyone else had an elective C at 37-38 weeks, or induction? Did you have steroids?
I’m back on the phone to the hospital on monday to see if I can find out more and hopefully speak to someone who might actually give some good advice… I’ve had to do so much of the organisation of these appointments throughout, the coordination and management at the hospital is crap to say it lightly which has proved stressful.
Thanks for any advice 🙂🙂