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How old were you when you started TTC and how long did it take?

106 replies

Benji1998 · 21/03/2023 11:49

25, looking to start a family in the next year or so all being well.

How old were you and how long did it take?

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Dinosaurpoopy · 21/03/2023 16:52

23- 4 months

25- one "it'll be fine" 🤦‍♀️

bbyno2 · 21/03/2023 16:56

First child 28 complete accident, second child 32 said lets stop trying not to get pregnant and got pregnant from the first time we had sex. So be prepared for it to happen straight away

babybythesea · 21/03/2023 16:58

1st Dc- I was 31 and it took 2 months.
2nd Dc - I was 33 when we started trying. It took 2.5 years. I was 36 when she was born and we’d given up trying!

GG1986 · 21/03/2023 17:10

1st baby at 27 - 3 months but miscarried
2nd baby at 29 - 15 months
3rd baby at 36 - around 12 months

Quornflakegirl · 21/03/2023 17:14

32 and first try, twins!

sommeliermama · 21/03/2023 17:17

31 - in the first month straight off the pill. Took us by surprise!

harryfan37 · 21/03/2023 17:24

I was 28 and conceived after 1 month :)

17caterpillars1mouse · 21/03/2023 17:28

Age 27 - 4 months
Age 28 - 2 months but lost at 19 weeks
Age 29 - 3 months

dmb91 · 21/03/2023 17:32

29 - 13 months

ELL2478 · 21/03/2023 19:25

@MassiveSalad22 well yes my third was accidental, only had sex once in the whole month as well. No I'm probably not unusual I'm just going by how statistically likely it is to conceive each month. I also didn't want to seem insensitive or like I was gloating as I know it can be a sensitive topic like you said.

MrsPetty · 21/03/2023 19:35

41 - pretty much straight away
43 - two months

I had a miscarriage before DD1. I think I was very lucky …

MissMarpleBum · 21/03/2023 19:39

First, I was 28 & took one go 😳
Pregnant with 2nd now at age 32, took 5 months

Namechange600 · 21/03/2023 19:42

28 - took nearly three years
33 - wasn’t trying
35 - took 1.5 years and 2 mc

turns out I had pcos, stage 4 endometriosis and adenomyosis 🤦🏼‍♀️

Benji1998 · 21/03/2023 19:42

Yes good point apologies. I will try amend it now.

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weegiemum · 21/03/2023 19:45

First child - 28 and took 1 month
Second child - 30 and took 2 months
Third child - 31 and we weren't trying at all (I had a mirena coil)!

Fox01 · 21/03/2023 19:46

Started at 30 and going to be 34 in a few months and no pregnancies until this first ivf transfer which is a chemical pregnancy. Unexplained infertility too and was told I'm more fertile than the average 🤷🏼‍♀️.

DramaAlpaca · 21/03/2023 19:49

I was 28, it took 11 months.

With DC2, I'd just turned 30 and it happened the first month of trying.

DC3 took 4 months when I was 32.

LynnLardAssian · 21/03/2023 19:51

27 - got pregnant the first month of trying
29 - got pregnant again first month of trying but miscarried.
30 - pregnant after 2 months of trying
36 - an accident! Blush

I have friends who have struggled, so I realise how lucky I have been.

jackstini · 21/03/2023 19:52

32, took 9 months to conceive dd
Then a 6 months but had MMC and chemical pregnancy 3 months apart at age 34, then conceived ds 4 months after at 35

pippapipps · 21/03/2023 19:52

I've had four children dtd once and got pregnant each time

stormelf · 21/03/2023 19:54

We started trying to conceive when I was 25 and had first child when I was two months shy of 30 (there were 7 miscarriages in that time)

Suzi888 · 21/03/2023 19:57

Age 39 first time, unprotected, DD now 7.

justanothermummma · 21/03/2023 20:06

Child one I was 22 and I was on antibiotics with the pill and we 'risked it' thinking it would be unlikely I'd fall pregnant and then well.. she's four now!

Child two, I was 24 we got married end of November and I came off the pill two weeks before and I got my positive test in mid January. She's 2 now!

It's different for everyone though! X

Nicewarmfeet · 21/03/2023 20:07

35 - one shag. My ex DH is disturbingly fertile.

Rockingcloggs · 21/03/2023 20:11

Started at 22. 5 miscarriages and 6 cycles of ICSI with immune therapy and I had my son at 28!

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