Hey all, I'm new here but don't really have any friends I can confide in about this -
I'm almost 32, have a great job, am studying full-time for another postgrad degree, married, and we own our home. But, I unexpectedly got a BFP 2 days ago and I haven't stopped panicking. I mean, big, breathless anxiety panic.
I feel ridiculous being in the situation we're in and thinking 'I don't think I can do this'. Kids were on the agenda in the future but I can't imagine doing it just now. However, when I was 25 I got an abortion (I was with my husband then, too) and it was so traumatic, I similarly don't know if I could do that again.
Added stress is we have a one bed flat...nightmare. Should I let the prospect ruminate for longer before making a decision? Does everyone feel like this after an unexpected BFP?!
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CaffeinatedLondoner · 19/03/2023 08:13
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