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19 weeks pregnant heartbroken and he has left me

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GL222 · 14/03/2023 06:42

Hi all. So me and my now ex were together just over a year but I have known him for 5 years.
He has a 3 year old son with his ex who he couldn't see for 2 years for no reason she stopped contact due to bitterness
Now he has contact after the final court hearing 5 weeks ago
Since that. They have all of a sudden become best friends and he has spoke to her about me behind my back telling her all of our problems and laughing about getting me pregnant!
I don't like this woman at all. She also has another son who isn't his that he wanted to see
So behind my back he has also been going on family days out and spending time with her
He has also called me her name approximately 4 times mistaken me for her and has mentioned her in conversations
After everything she has done to him they are best friends again it baffles my brain

The weekend I lost it got really upset and had a complete mental breakdown. I feel betrayed due to the fact we were seeing eachogher years ago and he got back with her then too

He said he doesn't want to be with me as I am emotionally unstable and he doesn't want to talk to me at all anymore

I feel so heartbroken. He hasn't been supportive much whilst I've been pregnant and he is just causing me pain

I can't get out of bed and I'm slumped in a deep depression. I know baby can feel what I'm.feeling and it makes me feel worse

Knowing I have to do this alone now and I don't feel strong enough
My heart is broken. And I feel he will get back with her I see it coming

Does anyone know how to deal with depression and severe anxiety whilst pregnant? I need to talk to my midwife but I am suffering greatly praying the pain will go away

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GL222 · 14/03/2023 06:43

Just to add he sees his child every week now through court he got what he wanted but still now is going on days out and spending time with her. I just don't understand

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Kezhoust2586 · 14/03/2023 07:06

Let me just start off by saying what your feeling is completely natural, pregnant, or not the way he's acting, I'd be glad to see the back of him.
You're not emotionally unstable. It's HORMONES . The way he's treating you in mega is unfair, and it's almost like he's got his own way with seeing his kid, and now you're being kicked to the kirb. He's not a man, especially leaving you whilst being pregnant with his child 🙄. If you have a supportive family and friends, do it solo hun....don't be afraid to concentrate on you and your pregnancy ❤️

GL222 · 14/03/2023 08:09

Thanks so much. Yes I need to concentrate on feeling better and my baby all that matters now
He reallt isn't worth it x

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