Hey all. So I've known my partner for years however we've been together just under a year now. I'm 18 weeks pregnant.
He has always been difficult to be with and I struggled a bit before however since I have been pregnant I really cannot stand the man.
We both decided to keep the baby as we thought it felt right but since I have been pregnant we constantly argue and do not get on at all
I really have tried because I wanted to be a family so much and didn't want to become a single mom before I even have give birth.
Basically he has adhd but he is very insensitive, unsupportive and has no emphatic bone in his body
He says what he thinks however constantly says stuff about my appearance such as my acne I have been getting since being pregnant and my weight. Constantcomments which make me feel so angry and insecure they lead to bad arguments to the point the other week I had a severe mental breakdown
He also is not very nice to my dogs. My one dog is a bit of a naughty girl and can be annoying however he constantly moans about her and I thought he hurt her before as I heard it. Also slates my dogs appearance!
He says he says this stuff due to his condition and he says it the way it is. I hate it ! He has not been supportive what so ever and if I ever talk to him about how I'm struggling he says 'your such a drama queen your pregnant so what'
Like he knows how I feel
also we don't live together and only see him now on a weekend sometimes. He lives 50 miles away. I couldn't move in with him as he refuses to move over here and I actually think living wirh him would be a nightmare
I just feel so upset that i got pregnant with the wrong person. I don't like him at all anymore and been trying just for the babys sake. This was never meant to be the plan and I really wanted a family
I constantly cry because I know we aren't working but I hate the position that has put me in
I know he will be there for the child but I just feel so much resentment towards him because of how he's been since I've been pregnant