Name changed for this.
I am at the wrong side of 30s, partner a little older and I am really struggling with decision on children. We are a happy couple and financially stable.
We've always imagined having a family but it was always something for later. We are nearing the 'now or never' point and are really struggling with it.
I value my independence, financial security and a relatively stress free life. All of my close friends have children and witnessing the strain on their relationships' also makes me apprehensive.
Am I being short-sighted? I don't feel broody but it does seem quite sad to imagine that our lineage ends with us and also that one of us will be alone as we get older.
I know that no one can tell us what to do so I'm not really sure what I'm asking, maybe experiences from people that have been in a similar place and made a decision?
Also just want to add that I am aware that I might not have the luxury of choice and won't know this unless take a decision to try.