Hi all,
I need to make a decision, currently 29 weeks pregnant and type 1 diabetic. I need to deliver at 38 weeks. This is my second and I tried induction with the first which failed (at 37 weeks) so I had an emergency c section.
Now I need to decide on c section or try for induction again. My obstetrics consultant will support me trying for induction again however thinks c section is a better idea. She is comfortable with the risk of uterine rupture, however feels that the odds of an induction is about 50/50 of working and therefore probably not worth the risk when it’s not likely to work anyway (very fair point).
My real concern is recovering from a c section while having a toddler at home who really wants to be picked up and having to manage stairs etc. Plus if I’m honest I’m quite scared of surgery. I probably wouldn’t admit that the latter is really playing on my mind in real life. As I’ve already had a c section and TBH it was fine and not that bad for recovery.
So I need to decide to take the 50/50 chance and try for induction even though those aren’t great odds, where I could realistically waste several days in hospital and end up with an emergency c section anyway or just bookin and have the c section. I think another part of me is a little sad I won’t ever experience labour and birth, which I acknowledge is illogical and silly.
Anyway, I was interested in what others thought and what they would do in that situation. Also, actually writing that down has been very helpful for clarity as well!