Hey, I’m new posting here.
I’ve had a terrible time TTC our second and now we’re trying IVF which hasn’t made things any easier.
There have been a lot of spanners in the machine from day 1. But to get to the point, my day 9 hcg was only 68 which is apparently a bad sign. The repeat a week later was 1700 so we relaxed for a while.
At the 6 week scan (6+2) there was no heart beat and the fetal pole was only measuring at 5+2. Today was the 7 week scan (7+2) and I’m told there is now a heartbeat but the fetal pole is only 3mm - measuring at around 6 weeks. On top of that the yolk sac is “large” - they didn’t say how large but were quite pessimistic about what all this meant. When I was pregnant with my son, he was always small and behind on dates (and still is as a 4 year old!) I don’t know if this could just be how I make babies?
Has anyone gone through a similar thing? I’ve read other threads and the outcome never seems good. I don’t know what I want really. Just wanted to share. I will post the outcome incase it helps anyone else in the future. Just feeling really low now and a little defeated.