Hi, everyone.
Just hoping for advice from anyone who's had a similar experience.
I'm currently 22 weeks pregnant (second pregnancy; my first was born vaginally 18 months ago). I had a small bleed on Monday with small clot. Got checked over in hospital, given an injection of anti-d, then sent home after a few hours with no explanation for the bleeding. They checked my cervix and it was long and closed.
I had a bigger bleed (bright red) on Wednesday morning with two small clots so went back to hospital and was kept in overnight for monitoring.
I didn't have further bleeding, all my obs and baby's heartbeat were fine, cervix long and closed, so they let me go after 24 hours. I wasn't given an explanation for the bleeding – they basically said sometimes it just happens. I asked for a scan to check my placenta and they said no, it wasn't required.
After leaving hospital I booked a private scan (with a properly qualified sonographer). She said that I have a low-lying placenta and confirmed this via transvaginal ultrasound. It's 1.6cm from my cervix and apparently anything less than 2cm should be classed as low. This seems the most likely cause of the bleeding. She said I have grounds for an official complaint against the sonographer who did my 20-week scan, as they marked my placenta as high in my notes, and this is a potentially very dangerous mistake to have made. She also said I should have extra monitoring/scans from the NHS before I deliver.
As I understand it, it's likely that my placenta will move out of the way before delivery, and there's no immediate risk to me or baby right now, but it's definitely something that requires further monitoring to avoid the worst-case scenario.
I tried to get my midwife on the phone today but no luck, so phoned triage for some general advice, which was a vague take it easy, no exercise, no sex – but I’m not sure if that just means for now, i.e. in the aftermath of the bleeds I’ve had this week, or for the rest of the pregnancy.
I’m trying to absorb all of this after what has been a tiring week, and I just feel a bit… lost? I’m frustrated with the lack of information, and I feel both scared and angry that this was missed at my 20-week scan. I'm a big supporter of our NHS, but I feel pretty let down by this. And very, very grateful that I could afford a private scan.
I already had a midwife appointment booked in for next week, so I’m going to take it very easy until then, but in the meantime, if anyone could please share their experiences of low-lying placenta, I would be very grateful.